In the classic book by Bronnie Ware, The Five Regrets of the Dying, the top regret is not having the courage to live a life true to yourself, not the life others expected of you.
This closely mirrors the #1 regret I’ve heard over and over in career coaching and in my 25 years as a recruiter:
“I wish I had taken the risk to go after my career dreams sooner.”
But there’s another regret that runs a close second—and it’s the one that quietly impacts every stage of a career:
“I wish I had nurtured my network and built career visibility more consistently.”
Inside Career Alchemy Academy, we teach that your career grows on three pillars:
- Your Alchemist Vision – The inner compass that aligns your self-belief and gives you direction. It’s not about having all the details figured out—it starts as a feeling of what you want and becomes clearer as you move toward it. We bring this vision to life through a tool we call the 3 VIPs—Very Important Priorities—to guide short-term action.
- Your Alchemist Path – How you make your career dreams real. It includes:
- Visibility
- Alignment & Agreement
- Delivering Results
- Your Alchemist Tools – The practices and mindsets that support growth, including:
- The 3 VIP’s (Very Important Priorities)
- The Mindset Model (to redirect unhelpful thoughts)
- Career Retrospectives (to evaluate, learn and grow)
- And deepening your Spiritual Intelligence (SQ) … your connection to inner wisdom and belief in and receiving guidance from unseen support
Let’s Talk About Step 1 on your Path: Visibility
Right now, I’m deep in the process of re-recording trainings inside the Academy, and I’ve been laser-focused on Pillar Two—Your Path. The very first element of that path? Creating visibility.
Visibility isn’t something you suddenly do when you’re ready for a new job. It’s something you nurture all the time.
Over the years, I can’t count how many people have come to me—laid off, burned out, or ready for something new—and said,
“I should’ve been building my visibility all along.”
What Visibility Really Means
Visibility isn’t about putting yourself in the spotlight.
It’s about sharing your light.
It’s about being of service, giving value, and allowing others to see your gifts.
When you reframe visibility this way—as an act of generosity and contribution—it feels more authentic. And it becomes a practice you’ll want to keep up regularly, not just when you’re in need.
Inside the Academy, we dive into:
- Why visibility is essential
- The mindset and energy you need to be in to make it work
- And dozens of visibility vehicles for every step in your career … whether you’re job hunting, pivoting your career or repositioning yourself inside your current company.
Why We Wait Too Long
Most people don’t start building visibility until something shakes up their career:
- A layoff
- A promotion that never comes
- An approaching empty nest or retirement
- Or just that quiet voice saying, “I want more than this.”
And when that moment comes, many feel awkward reaching out, because they haven’t kept up those connections. They say things like:
“I don’t want to ask for something now when I haven’t talked to them in years.”
That’s why regret #2 is so painful. Because it’s avoidable.
The New Habit to Build
Here’s what I want you to know:
- When you are visible, you don’t just serve yourself … you serve others.
- When you consistently show up and shine your light, you create opportunities for people to find you. Maybe about a job opportunity or maybe to ask for your advice and wisdom.
- And when a need arises—a team member to mentor, a job to fill, a speaker to book, a board seat to fill—you’re already in the mix.
You’re not scrambling to show up…
You’ve been showing up all along.
The key is to find visibility vehicles that energize you—not drain you—and commit to showing up in those spaces regularly.
Because the result is twofold:
- Others know who you are and what you offer.
- And you feel more confident asking for what you need, because you’ve already been giving, connecting, and contributing all along.
Want to learn more about how to nurture your visibility in a way that feels aligned, authentic, and effective?
We go deep inside Career Alchemy Academy—because visibility is not just a tactic. It’s a way of being. SIGN ME UP!
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