We often hear about how we should work for a company that is aligned with our values.
A company whose mission is something we can get fully behind.
Excellent advice for sure.
Yet, what we value can feel obvious and nebulous at the same time.
I have created a fun exercise to help you get clarity on what matters to you most.
Then look at the work you are doing and who you are doing it for through a different lens.
10 steps to determining your values:ย
1. ย Grab a small notebook and pen
2. ย Go to a favorite room in your house.
3. ย Look around the room and write down the name of those things that capture your eye and generates a feeling of joy inside you when you observe it. Consider knick-knacks, paint color or the wallpaper, door knobs, rugs, pictures on the wall, blankets on the couch, the couch.
Find a quiet place and settle in for approximately 30 minutes.
4. ย Next to each object explore these 2 questions: Why do I love this object? What meaning does it hold for me?
Example: I love this pillow because it is my favorite shade ofย blue. The pillow holds meaning for me because it was given to me by my beloved grandmother.
5. ย Associate the meaning to a value: This pillow reminds me of my grandmother. I value family.
6. ย Keep going down the list determining what you love about the object and the meaning it holds. Then find a value that is attached to that meaning
7. ย Make a list of all the values you listed:
- Family
- Fun
- Spirituality
- Beauty
- Creativity
- Nature
8. ย Rate each of the values on a scale of 0-10 with 0 being not a part of your career in any way and 10 being fully a part of your current career.
9. ย Spend some time journaling about what this exercise brought up for you. What might you do with this information?
Example:ย
If Beauty is one of your primary values perhaps it is time to get an office with a window or add a painting to your wall.
If Nature came up for you then maybe a plant is a simple addition.
If Fun is a value and thinking about going to work tomorrow makes hearing nails on a chalkboard sound like a vacation then it is time for a new job!